Some bonds are strong while others are weak and do not take the strains of a relationship. Egos, incompatibility and no scope for adjustments, make it very difficult to work out a relationship. Sometimes, relationships are broken even before they are formed. But when it is the other way round, as in long term relationships, breakups are much more difficult to handle. In either of the cases, it is still repairable.
Help is at hand for those who wish to Get ex back into a good relationship, second time around. There are professional counselors who can help you overcome this difficult situation, and many times technology comes to the rescue. There are professionally designed messaging services and features available to use in such situations.
First and foremost, introspect if the relationship is worth mending, and what were the reasons for the break up. If you feel it is worth putting an effort to revive it, then seek help. Friends and family of your partner can let you know if he or she is also interested in the relationship, and this will help you move forward with a good plan. Polite reminders of happier times and thoughts about missing all the fun things of your relationship messaged to your ex through SMS or email can be a good way to start mending the bonds.